Have you ever wanted to do something and get scared? Have you ever wanted to start something new and talk yourself out of it? Well y’all that is me!! I am the queen of talking myself out of stuff! It wasn’t until this year when I was watching a Youtube interview video of August Alsina…
I looked in the Mirror
I woke up one day doing my normal Tuesday routine gym, shower, work and bible study. I got dressed for work, did a final take in the mirror before walking out the door and I learned that I didn’t like what I saw. I loved my outfit, my edges were slayed but something was missing….
Stop, their weight is not your job!
I was hanging out with one of my co-workers tonight and we were discussing this thing called Life/Adulting 101. In our conversation she mentioned how she decided to stop allowing people to put their issues and problems onto her. When she stated that I immediately had a glance over my life and how I used…
I’m Fighting a Battle that was Never Meant for Me to Fight!
Have you ever wondered why you do the things you do? Why do you respond to things the way you do? Or have you heard someone say this is just how I am? I was like that for years. It wasn’t until I listened to Pastor Michael Todd, sermon Daddy Issues, that I realized that…
Help, I have Childhood Trauma
As I get older I reflect on some things in my life. I realized the definition of childhood trauma that I was told as a kid was not correct. The definition I was told is that you only have childhood trauma when you are abused sexually and physically as a child. It wasn’t until I…
He’s everything that I prayed for but He’s Married!
Y’all God finally sent by Boaz, wait he’s already someone else Boaz! There was a time in my life that I was in a “Committed Relationship” with a married man. He was everything that I had on my checklist for the man I was praying, God to send me. He was fine, intelligent, had gorgeous…
I finally got him out my bed
I am pretty sure you have heard the song, Session 32 by Summer Walker. If you haven’t heard the song you really should go listen to it. I was listening to this song after a friend sent it to me because I love Summer Walker. In the song she says, “I finally got you out…
Healing is a b**ch!
The definition of healing is the process of becoming! First off, who came up with this definition? Healing is a journey that is annoying, aggravating, frustrating and I am so tired of crying one day and not the next. This journey is tough and some days I like it then some days I do not…
It’s A Struggle
I’m struggling!! I’m struggling to let you go because you’re my best friend, my lover, my business partner but the thought of not doing life with you hurts. You’re the guy that I always dreamed of when I go to sleep, you’re the only guy whose voice makes me feel all warm and bubbly inside….